Tuesday, August 07, 2018
By Xochitl Rodrigue Photography
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Love & Light Photo Tour... Gina

Photography has been an outlet for me to express my feelings but its also been a tool for me to get to know people, to sit down and chat with them to find out who they are, where they come from, what they like, what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, what they look forward to or run away from. Before I lifted my camera to start working with Gina I knew I just had to talk to her and get to know her before I could move on to do my photography session. So we did just that, we sat, we talked and in the process we both discovered we both loved hiking and working out. One of the reasons I love hiking is because I just love the outdoors but also, its a coping activity with depression which is a common condition among alot of people. After talking about how depression affects people and ways to cope I asked Gina what she expected out of her session and I know my hope with people is simple that they feel comfortable during the shoot so I can give them beautiful images especially the type of images we were going to be shooting, boudoir or lingerie photography like some may call it. Boudoir photography is bedroom photography, something I have been doing with work for years. Why do I love to do these sessions for women one simple reason, I want every women to feel comfortable and accepting of their bodies as they are in the present moment. When you love and accept yourself you are able to give yourself so much more back, there is no fear, insecurity, holding back but acceptance and gratitude with what you have only makes it for you to able to enjoy what you have at that moment and why would'nt you anyway? We are often our own worst critic or enemy when it would be so amazing if we could be our best friend in acceptance of ourselves. Like I had mentioned to Gina it took many years for me to feel comfortable with myself and body and today I have nothing but love of where I am, wrinkles, with extra weight, greys and all. Its just who I am and really who is to say what the perfect body image is anyways? So why do we put ourselves in a box that keeps us holding on to insecurities, fears and issues? My hope is that if women are in that box they set themselves free with a photo session and emotionally and spiritually allow themselves to love every inch of themselves without reservations. Then you can spread your love and light.

 

Love & Light Photo Tour 2018 Gina

 
Sunday, August 05, 2018
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August 4th, 2018

The alarm went off, it was 6am and the temptation to hit hat snooze button one more time just seemed way to easy but then I looked around and there was an apartment that still needed to be packed and with whatever we could fit in storage and the other whatever we can fit in my small Saturn Vue which really was not much. For the next year whatever we could fit into that car is what we would own. Kyla and I worked together to get it done and we did just before we needed to be on the road for our first stop in Marana, Arizona where my sister and her family were waiting to be photographed. Before we headed out I asked Kyla to come and do a walk through one more time. We went into each room where memories were made, memories of laughter, nights of loneliness, moments where meals where shared where strangers from around the world had become friends, moments of creative thoughts and energy were shared, moments of me feeling numbness, joy, sorrow, excitment, accomplishment, defeat, anger so many, many moments were left in that appartment.  Here we were on a new journey one where my only desire was to find forgiveness within myself for all the wrongs I had done. The most important person I wanted to find forgiveness in was my daughter Kyla. I dont think she realized that but from looking at her hands and legs, scars from years of suffering and expresssed through self harmhad deeply impacted her in ways that I could never take back. But I have always believed that it is never too late to change and it is never too late to ask for forgiveness so during this Love & Light Tour I find myself fighting all my bad choices from the past and finding a way heal myself and her from all the pain. We shared a few laughs, looked at each other and said, "Okay let's do this, let's spread some love and light".

Kyla really wanted to see the Hoover Dam so we made our way up there but when we got to the entrance they had a check point we stopped like everyone else, the security asked us to roll down the windows so he could see what was inside the car so I did. He took a look and saw the car was full of things then he asked, "Are you moving?". I replied, "Yes, we are". Yes acutally we had just moved into our car, of course I did not got into those details but he could clearly see that if was full of things, I remained calm after he asked me to go to a second line which was for inspection. Of course I did, drove the he second line got out of the car, opened the back door and side doors. When he asked me what was in one of my boxes I replied, "My computer." "What about this little box?", "Oh that one?" I asked back. I didnt really reply I just grabbed the box opened it and there they were, patches! Yes iron on patches that I had been collecting from all my travels, from travels to national parks, to Australia, US states and he looked at me and said,"Alright you can go". I thought  to myself well that was easy! Then I realized this Love & Tour Photo Tour I was going to add so many more patches! How exciting was that? But what about Kyla, what did she find exciting up on the walkway one of the Seven Indutrial Wonders of the World? She said to me, "Mom I think I would be a really good comedian, all I have to do is make fun of myself, people would love that". Of course I think she could do whatever she wants and I think comedy is great as a matter of fact I was a regular in Vegas to comedy shows and I could totally see her doing that one day. But little did I know that this very night she was going to keep me in stitches as she unvieled her witty mind before myself, my sister Susy, her husband Fito and my niece and nephews. Little did I know I had not just an artist but a comedian in the making.

On the road

Headed to our first destination, conversation between Kyla and I.

First Love & Light with my sister Susy

Why does someone drive 6 hours, does the shoot and work another 6 hours? Passion, I have never felt like I worked a day in my life when I do photography. Its something I could do day after day, night after night because its something that I love from every bit of me. So not only does it bring me an immense amount of joy but it brings me even great joy to share what I love so much with others and having people in front of me to work with is such a huge blessing.

Love & Light Photo Tour

Our journey towards love and light.

August 5, 2018

Today I jumped out of bed at 6am after going to bed at 1am, I just had to get up and write! There are so many feelings and emotions I am going through right now that I felt that keeping them to myself is a bit useless so I might as well write about them. You see, you who walk with me don't just walk in my highs in life but also the lows. When I left Vegas I left with huge hope which is what carries me through everyday but also with a bit of broken heart for a day before I had a conversation with someone I loved very much hurt me very deeply and I figured giving each other space was best for the time being. But one thing I have promised myself is that no matter what happens always, always, always find the positive and the joy in the situation. So with that mindset I decided to be happy! Yes be happy and dance. I found gratitude so comforting. Gratitude that I am now at my sisters house and she and her family are taking Kyla and I in and we are having such an amazing time. It has been years that I have spent a night a her place. As a way of showing my gratitude I offered to help clean up and share in the household shores but to do  shores without music is almost a sin to me, so Fito graciously put on my favorite song, "Despacito" only because it is a song that Rhea and I love to dance to. So with a  mop in one hand and my spirit of gratitude I opened myself up to happiness. I allowed myself to feel the emotion and guess what I had a great time! Solo! Yes solo! I danced while cleaning which as anyone knows cleaning can be a dread but I took that mop and rocked it like a rockstar, well a Mexican rock star with two left feet as you will see I almost slipped but caught myself, I am very good at catching myself because I am excellent at almost falling. Well its kinda easy to do when the floor is wet. But I hope you find entertainment in my excellence of clumsiness. There is no greater acceptance than self acceptance. Be yourself, be who you are be genuine and let light flow through you and share your light with others. My journey is about finding my own light and sharing it with others as I begin to love myself and accept me with all my virtues, flaws, character traits, good and bad. Its a wild ride but I wouldnt have it any other way.

A Mop & Two Happy Feet

Dance like no one is watching, laugh like you've never cried and cry like you've never laughed. Be happy, share love share light.

August 6

Taking a stand against depression

Last night we all sat around the dinner table Kyla, Fito, Susy and had a heart to heart. I can't thank Fito enough to help me navigate through these waters of being a single parent with a teenage daughter. His patience and calmness was so relieving as we all listened to Kyla and all the pain she carried for years. She talked about the hurt of me leaving California for which I am still dealing with myself and the pain it caused her and the bullying she was given at school for being that awkward teen. It was evident that years of pain had taken over her body because the only way she was able to relieve her pain was through self harm. I listened to everything as she came down with anger, sadness, confusion and all these mixed emotions with a reminder of her bipolar disorder. Bipolar disorder is something that I understand all too well. As its something I was diagnosed with back in 2007 after the birth of Daisy my third child. For anyone who suffers from this debilitating illness my heart goes out to you. I still battle it and some days are better than others. Right now I am going through a low which is rough spells of depression mixed with the unability to focus, maintain conversations, a mental fog, crippling depression and anxiety. This morning was so hard to get out of bed for me but the night before I had told myself I just had to get up and go no matter what, I had to force myself no matter what. So this morning I did, I got up, it took everything I had, all the energy and focus I could muster to get my aching body from the depression to get my shoes head out the door and start walking. In this next video you will see what emotions I go through. For those who suffer from bipolar or any other mental illness it can be debilitating and difficult but I want you to know that it can be overcome too. I decided on my journey I was going to let people in, my mind, my head so they could see what it was like to get a glimpse at someone who suffers with an invisible illness. Many times those of us who suffer are often misunderstood and judged, through my journey I just want to show you the courage it takes to battle it on a daily basis and the mental exhaustion that can be caused from it. This love and light tour is about giving something to others that helps me heal inside. Giving is a way of coping for me. As you watch the video you will hear me speak of Karan who I love and respect very much as well as Sayali his fiancee. They have been amazing and instrumental in helping me grow my music production business but also in showing me what love is. If anyone out there that is reading this blog and watches the video needs an editor please hire Karan. I pledge for his professionalism, dedication, energy, creative mind and talent. He will deliver something incredible. He is without realizing it helping me heal my relationship with my daughter Kyla. So Karan thank you for your example as a kind and compassionate person but also who has incredible talent to help and help others through your craft as an editor. May you be blessed with so much and your dream of getting married to your beautiful Sayali come soon. You both are loved.

Fighting Depression

Today I fight depression and you will see a glimpse of my roller coaster ride, internal pain that I must fight when it gets intense, the lows of this crippling mental illness but the strength it takes to overcome and keep going. Thank you for watching and may you filled with love and light in your lives because without love and light in our life we wither like a flower without water.

August 7, 2018

My Mom is an amazing woman

Find out what makes my mom so amazing and why she is so strong.

August 8, 2018

I can already see a huge change in my emotions and a calming of them when I run and with that calmness comes  ability to focus, work and be productive. I went on my second run with the intention of going further the second day which I did. I did  a little over 3 miles in 100 degree weather. I would never have done that in the past, that was crazy for me as I have a hard time handling the heat but I felt the need to do it so I did and I am so glad that I did. Today's run was not so much for me but for my Sister Grisol who is also going through her share of ups and downs and I just wanted to take a moment to focus on her this time and send her some love and light with this video.

Yesterday was my day, today is your day Sister

Running to honor my Sister Grisol's struggles.

Your body is your only body so make the best of it.

In this video I talk about not holding onto grudges and taking care of your body.

August 9, 2018

Recap of whats to come

Kyla and I recap what we have overcome and are about to encounter on our next journey to our next destination and the growth we have shared in our relationship on this road trip.

After leaving Tucson with memories to carry us through the downs we now headed out to Bisbee, Arizona a small mining town near the Mexican Border. Kyla and I drove through the mountains and noticed the sudden change of temperature drop up to 30 degrees and we looked at each other and we just breathed a sigh of relief! No more 100 plus degree weather, our journey had been one of powering through a drive without the comfort of the AC into the desolate desert terrain but being up in the mountains now was a breath of fresh air! We felt alive and happy to enjoy the cool breeze flow through our hair and hands as we rolled down the windows and enjoyed every second of the Arizona mountains.

 
Sunday, August 05, 2018
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Why is this tour so special to me? First of all some of my family members will be participating in it, family like my sister Susy. Let me tell you something about Susy, Susy is one of my younger sisters as a little girl everyone used to call her "Canita" who got her nickname because as a child she would always roll her dollar bills into a what looked like a sugar cane and she would hold onto it tight! That was my sister a natural business girl and excellent sales person, she was gifted with her words and an avid reader. As a matter of fact she is the one that encouraged me for years to start writing a blog so just recently I started to because I knew she would devour every word and enjoy reading about my travels and adventures. So this is my sister Susy and Fito her husband of 20 years is also quit an awesome brother-in-law. He looks after his family, is an excellent provider and he loves his family especially my sister Susy. Fito is the kind of guy that when he has company over he  will offer  whatever he has in his kitchen to make sure you are fed and if its a nice warm day and there are some ice cold beers he will hand one over to you and will relax and chat with you and give you his undivided attention. He is polite, hospitable and always ensuring that you feel comfortable and at home. Their oldest son Marqui is over six feet tall at the age of fifteen is quiet and reserved but upon engaging in a conversation with him you can see his interest peak in topics of entrepreneurship, computers and becoming a Youtuber. Gianna has long beautiful flowing black hair but at the age of seven she would love to cut it short, brushing would be easier if it is shorter, she is blessed with such shinny healthy vibrant hair that most would love to have. She is the little prankster, during the shoot I asked if anyone  had a joke and Gianna was the first to jump at the opportunity to share her giddy side. She said her joke, made everyone laugh and she was so instrumental so that I could capture that love and light that radiates through each and every family member.  Gerardo the youngest of the Zepeda clan is a shy little guy but don't let his shyness fool you, he is a math wiz! Towards the end of our Love & Light Photo Session Fito and Susy expressed how happy and grateful they were to have this photo shoot as this was their first family photo session, ever. Love & Light is a personal journey that I am sharing with others, its a journey of empowerment through photography and preserving images that will remind families why they are together and stay together. May that love continue to grow and that light keep shining bright year after year as the family grows together. Thank you Susy and family for being part of this beautiful tour.

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Tuesday, July 31, 2018
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Interview with Coach Ayana O Entreprenuer/Business Consultant

 

What does Coach Ayana O do for businesses?

As a result of what I do people move from having a dream to having a 4, 5 or even 6 figure business doing what they love. I help novice and seasoned entrepreneurs overcome their fears about the complexities of the adminitrative an legal tasks involved in starting a business and create the roadmap to bring forth that desire to reality.

Who uses your business consulting services?

My most recent client is a beautiful being who has had a desire to own her own business but she was too fearful and confused to take action, she thought she needed a formal education to start a business! With my guidance she has successful overcome her fear and is in the process of opening her first physical location and has the road map and on track to open up 5 other locations by year 3. People who use my services include those with  big dreams and limited resources either financially or the know how. Others that use my services are existing business owners looking to launch or scale their business.

What makes you stand out?

I could go into details about my processes but no one is interested in that, what I will say is that my process is a holistic approach which other programs lack, I speak to the results I produce, the results speaks for themselves. Also I provide truly individualized services, tailored to my clients' needs, someone to communicate with & not a "frequently asked" document.

Why do you love doing what you do?

I believe and feel this is my dharma in life as it nurtures me and in turn I nurture society, doing this I am fulfilled, I am fulfilling a life's purpose that only I can do as I was created to do so.

What are you passionate about?

I have been passionate about many things in life, as I evolve, so does the tings I am passionate about. Something I am passionate about is standing in my own truth and being kind to myself & others in thoughts and deeds. What I mean by that is even it means being unpopular, I am ok with that, at least at the end of each day I am at peace because I did not cheat myself I was true to me. I am passionate about being your authentic self boldly no matter what stage or phase you are in life.

Advice for any entrepreneur?

Dare to be different, dare to soar!

If you are looking for "easy" don't be an entrepreneur, if you are in it just to make money, look elsewhere. Most of all be the solution to someone's problem and don't believe anyone who tells you it can't be done or discourages you. You have already come up with all the ways it won't work in your head, find & surround yourself with those that will help you find the way in which it will work!

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Friday, July 20, 2018
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Not many know my story with how I got to Vegas and why I came to Vegas, I was looking for hope searching for that light at the end of the tunnel. That light came to me in form of an angel by the name of Anna Smith. Back in February 2016 I found myself depressed, living right on Las Vegas Boulevard searching for hope. I was about to give up on working for a company that I loved when I got a phone call from one of my coworkers wondering where I had been and why I was not at work. During that time I was going through the loss of my older sister who lost her battle to cancer, that sadness swallowed me up whole and was taking me into a dark abyss that I had a hard time crawling out of. I was falling deeper and deeper into this darkness to add to the despair one night my friend called me to invite me to dinner, he was desperately trying to help me out, I accepted his invitation and we went out to dinner. He picked me up and off we went. While at dinner he told me that a new position had come up with my company and he knew I was perfect for the job. I was just ready to  go back and head back to California, he was  kind and talked me through my troubles and told me to give this new position a chance. I agreed and told him the next day I would go give it a shot as a last resort, unbeknownst upon returning back to my apartment I came back to a shocking surprise, I could not find my car! Did someone steal it, did someone take it? I knew in the back of my head what had happened, it had not been stolen it had been what we all fear when we fall behind on our car payments, yes the scary word, REPOED! I just did not know what to do. Depressed and now without a car I felt helpless. My friend encouraged to still give it a go and call the next day for the new position, he told me I know you are perfect for this job so I did hesitantly. When I called I remember hearing this different accent I did not recognize, it was an accent of a beautiful Armenian woman that without me knowing would soon change my life and not just mine but my children's as well, her name was Anna Smith. Anna asked me to come in that day if I could, but how could I right away? I did not have a car, was low on money and was walking everywhere. I told Anna my car was currently at the shop but I could be there the next day. She agreed to my interview for the next day. I remember thinking to myself how in the world was I going to do this without a car? But I soon changed my focus and told myself to give it a chance. So I walked into the deeding department for Westgate, I did not have fancy clothes, did not have fancy nails, did not have fancy hair, did not have fancy shoes but what I did have was hunger. I was hungry to succeed, I was hungry to make that sacrifice I had made to leave my children back in California worth something. There must have been something that Anna saw in me that day, she overlooked my clothes, shoes, nails, hair what she saw was me! She saw something that she found of value, she saw my conviction, dedication, persistence and passion. She gave me chance that changed my life in ways I could never imagine. I will never forget the time she would take out of her day to find out about me and my story to know who I really was and why I was there.  Angel's come in many forms and when you least expect them. I will forever be grateful for my angel on earth who changed my life forever and kept my hope alive. So Anna Smith please know that you made a  difference in not just one life but four others by the name of Kyla, Silas, Daisy and Rhea and for that I am forever grateful to you and your kindness and ability to see beyond the physical (clothes, shoes, nails, hair) but beyond that a woman who was doing everything within her power to make a difference in the most important people in her life, her children. You are our guardian Angel. My children were proud of what I began to do and the places we were going, I worked had day after day without hesitation or complaint because what was behind was hunger, depression, loneliness, despair but what was ahead of me was hope, living a life to the fullest and the making of dreams come true. So Anna if you ever feel down just remember you have the power to change one persons life and you can do it over and over and the greatest joys come from giving. Thank you for giving me a chance to be who I was meant to be... someone who has hope even during the darkest hours.

Be strong, be fearless, be beautiful. And believe that anything is possible when you have the right people there to support you.

Misty Copeland

With my gaurdian Angel Anna Smith working for Westgate Resorts 2016

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